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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £20 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Mrs Kelly Raynor

29th January 2026

Big Birthday snuggles and kisses being sent to heaven. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 we love and miss you always our beautiful Charlie Drew. Close to my heart, Never to part, Baby of mine. We hope Charlie's bear brings some comfort, he is sent with so much love xxx

For:Charlie Drew

28th January 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Charlene Kelly

29th January 2026

Thinking of you always Layla. On your second anniversary away from us. Love Mummy x

For:Layla McEntegart

29th January 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Laurie Main

28th January 2026

With love from Laurie, Ross, Jasper & Ada

For:Callum McArthur

27th January 2016

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Lucy Shaw

28th January 2026

For:Lily Alice Shaw

5th September 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Lucy Shaw

28th January 2026

For:Rose Elizabeth Shaw

5th September 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Katharine Banbury

27th January 2026

For:Luke David Banbury

1st June 2018

£200.00 + £50.00 Gift Aid

Ms Sheona Watson

27th January 2026

Happy 10th Birthday Callum. Once loved, never forgotten.

For:Callum

27th January 2016

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Katie Fraser

27th January 2026

Happy birthday to our precious niece Robin, lots of love from Auntie Katie and Uncle Zander xxx

For:Robin Wynter Moffat

28th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Terri Parker

27th January 2026

big hug to all the babies and family’s that need that love to help them through the day with a little teddy that can just take a bit of pain away was what I needed that day, that is what has made us donate as someone else needs that little love too

For:Baby giraffe ❤️

3rd September 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Georgia Parr

27th January 2026

To provide a cuddle for anyone who goes through the same distressing experience. We love you Baby Jackson.

For:Baby Jackson

11th August 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Pam Falconer

27th January 2026

For:Callum McArthur

27th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Amanda Forde

27th January 2026

For:Nicky James Paul smith

27th January 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Amy Metson

26th January 2026

For:Lilith Street

26th January 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lucy Mumford

26th January 2026

For:Noah Gardner

9th August 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Dr Laura Hancox

26th January 2026

Sending so much love and comfort to you all.

For:Eden Thomas Hancox Nimer

28th September 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Matthew Flowers

26th January 2026

For:Albie Thomas Flowers

26th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Clare Gardner

26th January 2026

For:Ella-Rose Gardner

16th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Anastasia McLean

24th January 2026

For:Baby McLean

4th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Kaya Mannings

24th January 2026

For:Baby Leo Mannings

18th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lucy Mumford

23rd January 2026

For:Noah Gardner

9th August 2023

£140.00 + £35.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Tamsin Shutler

23rd January 2026

We dedicate this bear to our beautiful and beloved Little Bean, we will miss them for eternity

For:Little Bean

22nd January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Dean Toole

23rd January 2026

For:Marlow hope toole

23rd January 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lisa Nuttall

23rd January 2026

Thinking of Martha on her birthday and her brother Gabe. Missed and loved always

For:Martha Lee

23rd January 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Abbie Pipe

22nd January 2026

For:Matthew Pipe

13th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Chelsey Ball

21st January 2026

For:Harry

11th October 2011

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Chelsey Ball

21st January 2026

For:Noah Adam Green

16th November 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Kerry Hector

20th January 2026

These bears are such a lovely way to bring comfort to families in this unfortunate situation

For:Rory Kenneth Roger batty

10th October 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Ana Vladian

20th January 2026

For:Filofteia

22nd December 2025

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Ella Beaumont

20th January 2026

For:Bobby Beaumont-Lee

18th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Emily Philp

19th January 2026

For:Harry Philp

4th January 2021

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Courtney Peacock

19th January 2026

For:Archie Peacock-May

5th October 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Emer Mc Guinness

17th January 2026

Hope this bear provide comfort in your hardest time.

For:Caoimhin barber

18th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sharna Warsop

15th January 2026

We hope this bear brings you as much comfort as it did us on the most difficult day of our lives. Your beautiful baby will live on in and around you always, love the Warsop family xx

For:Rory Matthew Warsop

15th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sian Church

15th January 2026

For:Baby Church

5th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Katie McDonald

12th January 2026

For:Baby Welburn

12th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Chloe Amphlett

11th January 2026

Please take me home with you as a source of comfort on days when you may need an extra hug. May it remind you that you are not alone and bring you love, warmth, and gentle reassurance during this difficult time. Your precious angel will share a special place in the sky with our little angel, Robyn (Gummy). May they rest together, forever xx

For:Gummy Robyn Amphlett

11th January 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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