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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £18 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Mrs Tracy Fountain

3rd December 2025

Happy Christmas to our little angel grandson Teddy lots of love Grandma & Grumpy xxx

For:Teddy Townshend

12th February 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Siobhan Goodwin

3rd December 2025

Our Darling Elsie, Wishing more than anything you could be here celebrating Christmas with us. Instead you will be shining down on us and we will be looking to sky for you. Always the brightest star in our sky. Loved and missed forever and always Mammy Daddy Kitty and Zac Xxxx

For:Elsie Violet Carol Goodwin

5th July 2019

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Alexandra Urquhart

3rd December 2025

Always in our hearts, never forgotten

For:Arthur Malcolm Urquhart

9th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Natalie Clarke

3rd December 2025

Merry Christmas sweetheart, we miss you every single day! We all wish you Merry Christmas!

For:Ella-Rose Chapman

15th July 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Rachel Shaffner

3rd December 2025

For:Thomas & Violet Adkins

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Tam Roberts

3rd December 2025

Always my arms are wrapped around you Ember, Angel and Star. Together Forever

For:Star Roberts

6th December 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Elizabeth Bowden

3rd December 2025

Carried for a moment, loved for a lifetime x

For:Baby Fregé

3rd December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Emma Porter

3rd December 2025

For:Florence Amelie Druggan

7th December 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Danielle Sims

3rd December 2025

For:Olivia Hope

17th March 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Julie Allan

3rd December 2025

In memory of our beloved Grandson

For:Ethan Michael

12th April 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Sian Newson

3rd December 2025

Happy birthday to our beautiful baby boy Teddy Our brightest star in the sky. We think of you everyday. You’ll always be apart of our family. Love you so much from Mummy, daddy and your big sister Florence xxx

For:Teddy George Newson

5th December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jane Phillips

3rd December 2025

In loving memory of our son who is never forgotten xx

For:Meshach

16th February 2003

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Kerry Hudson

3rd December 2025

For:Leo Michael Loughrey Walker

1st January 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Susan Morgans

3rd December 2025

We love and miss you every minute of everyday. You are never not in our thoughts. One day we have you to hold and love. We look forward to that day xxx

For:Daisy May Newcombe

21st May 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Leanne Kent

3rd December 2025

For:Ivy Louise Clare

28th November 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Stacey Hannaford

3rd December 2025

For:Rowan Ophelia

7th February 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Rachel Simmons

3rd December 2025

Donating a bear in memory of our daughter Brooke who was sadly taken from us to become a guardian angel. We miss and love you so much Brooke xxx

For:Brooke Simmons

29th August 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Stacey Roper

3rd December 2025

For:Lincoln Dee

30th November 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Bethany Tomlinson

3rd December 2025

We love you both more than you could ever know.

For:Arthur Oscroft-Tomlinson

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lynne McMillan

3rd December 2025

Happy Christmas Findlay. In our hearts always. Mummy, Daddy & Cameron xxx

For:Findlay Francis McMillan

20th July 2013

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Sophie Jaggard

2nd December 2025

Happy 1st Heavenly Birthday to our precious baby Brett, born on 5th December. I hope this bear brings comfort to another family and lets them know they are not alone.

For:Brett Jaggard

5th December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Emily Ward

2nd December 2025

In memory of baby Ward, our first baby who was loved so deeply and changed our lives

For:Baby Ward

10th December 2025

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Kathryn Greenwood

2nd December 2025

For:Mason Paul Greenwood

14th February 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Kathryn Greenwood

2nd December 2025

For:Alfie Jon David Greenwood

23rd March 2016

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Emily Rees

2nd December 2025

On behalf of our darling Cerys, who would have been celebrating her 3rd birthday. Mummy and daddy love you so much xxx

For:Cerys Margaret Fernie Rees

2nd December 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lucy Cogswell

2nd December 2025

Our darling nephew, in our hearts this Christmas, always and forever xxxx

For:Oliver Jacob O'Brien

28th February 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lucy Cogswell

2nd December 2025

Our darling girl, in our hearts this Christmas, always and forever xxxx

For:Charlie Cogswell

13th January 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Vikki Stockdale

2nd December 2025

Happy 1st Birthday Barney Remembered always xx

For:Barney

2nd December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Karen Cron

2nd December 2025

We held your hand for a little while, but you will hold our hearts forever.our beautiful little angel baby, every kiss we give your Twin brother we are kissing you too . Lots of love Nanny & Grandad xx

For:Barney Michael Walker

15th July 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jo Garland

1st December 2025

Thinking of our precious Daughter/Sister at Christmas. Loved always xxxx

For:Kya Marie

14th August 2009

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jessica Moods

1st December 2025

for my boys first birthday i hope this brings comfort to u as much as a bear as to me

For:kaleb moore

2nd December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Samantha Treadwell

1st December 2025

For our precious baby boy who should be here with us this Christmas 💙👼🏻

For:Noah Peter Charles Evans

25th April 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Julie Turner

1st December 2025

xx

For:Kirsty Megan Turner

15th December 1996

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Cheryl Allen

1st December 2025

For:Alyssa April Allen

6th January 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Mary Farmer

1st December 2025

For:Daisy Louisa Farmer

6th December 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Elisa Clarke

1st December 2025

Forever our Shining Star

For:Lily Clarke

28th August 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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