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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £18 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Dr Maria Stoikou

21st November 2025

For:Leo Hunt

6th August 2021

£100.00 + £25.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Brookes

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For:Otto and Otis Ancliffe

6th October 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lucy Ferry-Collins

21st November 2025

Sending so much love and strength xxx

For:Sprinkle

21st November 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Theresa Kirk

21st November 2025

Xx

For:Any

1st January 2025

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Katie Lawton

21st November 2025

We didn’t get to the point of naming our beautiful angel. We were just calling them bean for the time we had with them. There is always a light at the end of this darkness and we’re all just trying to navigate our way through.

For:Baby Lawton-Curran

30th April 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jennifer Hill

20th November 2025

For:Louisa-May Hill

9th December 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Kat Martin

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For:Teddy Bocock

19th June 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sandra Bailey

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For:Peter Hammersley

1st September 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Emma McCarroll

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For:Catriona Rose McCarroll

21st November 2009

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Dan Langley

20th November 2025

For:Baby Langley

20th November 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Barbara Lewis

20th November 2025

Love you more Nana & Grandad

For:Sonny Lewis-Melton

2nd November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Danielle Lewis

20th November 2025

We hope you love this bear As much as we love and miss our Sonny xxx

For:Sonny Lewis-Melton

2nd November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Emma Davies

20th November 2025

Happy 3rd birthday to my baby in heaven, may your bear bring comfort to the families of other angels like you 🩵

For:Alfie Peter Roland Wright

24th November 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lauren Colclough

19th November 2025

For:Hugo Colclough

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Alex Templeman

19th November 2025

For:Luca Templeman

18th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Natalie McGregor

18th November 2025

For:Arran James McGregor

22nd June 2020

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Melanie Cashman

18th November 2025

For:Leo Philip Cashman

18th November 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Alex Leach

18th November 2025

Always in my heart xxx

For:Harry Steven Beveridge

16th August 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Cody Townend

18th November 2025

In loving memory of our baby tigger.

For:Macie-Mae Townend

15th January 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Rose Bell

18th November 2025

Always in our hearts

For:Eli John Bell

11th July 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Gail Cartwright

18th November 2025

For:Owen Smith

15th November 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jantine van Loon

18th November 2025

For:Robin Ross

15th July 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Michael Burgess

18th November 2025

To our little princess. A moment in our arms, forever in our hearts. Love Mummy & Daddy

For:Madelyn Louisa Burgess

19th July 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Heather White

18th November 2025

For:Grayson Cole Evans

4th January 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Alexandria Redfearn

18th November 2025

You are my sunshine, forever loved. Mum x

For:Samantha Jayne Redfearn

11th July 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Beth Champion

17th November 2025

For:Felix Thomas Pearce

4th September 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Michelle Locke

17th November 2025

For:Eli Gabriel Allen

10th September 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Patricia James

17th November 2025

In memory of our precious son Jude Leslie James.

For:Jude Leslie James

17th November 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Morna Russell

17th November 2025

Always in our thoughts x

For:Baby Russell

22nd October 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lisa Pearson

17th November 2025

For:Isabelle-jayne Grimshaw

8th February 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Amy Zielonacki

17th November 2025

For:Jaxon & Joshua

13th June 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Emily Maltby-Gills

17th November 2025

For:Wyatt Emrys

8th September 2024

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Kerry Fay

17th November 2025

To our beautiful Lola! Happy Birthday princes !!! We love and miss you more each day. Love you too the moon and back sweetie. Love mummy, daddy, Frankie, Riley and Oliver xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxddxxxx

For:Baby Lola

17th November 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jemma Marshall

17th November 2025

Lots of love Laylas mummy x

For:Layla-Rose Marshall

1st November 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Debra Blakley

17th November 2025

In memory of our beautiful brave baby boy Joel. Missed every minute of everyday xx

For:Joel Archie Jed Abel Blakley

24th April 2006

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Daniel Houghton

17th November 2025

For:Charlie, Frankie, Bear, Icxy & Beany our baby bears

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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