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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 190 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £20 per bear. 

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Miss Ashlee Nuttall

11th November 2026

Born sleeping, forever in our hearts

For:Rosie Jane Nuttall - Jackson

18th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Ms Jan Whitlock

11th November 2026

Loving you forever and never forgotten

For:LEE

13th March 1985

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Delphine Bugarel

11th November 2026

For my beloved babies and the other babies gone too soon x

For:Ronnie 17.11.19 & Rosie 26.11.20

£100.00 + £25.00 Gift Aid

Miss Leanne Kent

11th November 2026

For:Ivy Louise Clare

28th November 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Lizzy Orourke

11th November 2026

Sending lots of love to my cousin

For:Arnold Dennis Wilson

7th November 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Maria Anderson

11th November 2026

Always love you

For:Arnold Dennis Wilson

7th November 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lynne Wilson

10th November 2026

You are not alone. I give you my love, strength and empathy during this heartbreaking time. Xxx

For:Arnold Dennis Wilson

7th November 2026

£60.00 + £15.00 Gift Aid

Miss Elizabeth Orourke

10th November 2026

Precious Arnold forever in my heart.

For:Arnold Dennis Wilson

7th November 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Shaun Wilson

10th November 2026

Never forgotten Arnie

For:Arnold Dennis Wilson

7th November 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Daniel Lewis

10th November 2026

For:Poppy Olivia Mae Lewis

12th August 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Sarah Sneezham

10th November 2026

For:Alfie Joe

6th September 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Samantha Earl

10th November 2026

Love you always Freddie, always thinking of you Mummy and Daddy

For:Freddie George Earl

4th August 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Shelley Pollard

10th November 2026

Beautiful Rory missed by us all xx

For:Rory Marshall

25th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lauren Colclough

10th November 2026

For:Hugo Colclough

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Caroline Buck

10th November 2026

Thinking of our darling granddaughter Chloe as her 7th heavenly Christmas approaches. Always in our thoughts.

For:Chloe Caroline Jayne Francis

21st September 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Dr Heather Moorhouse

10th November 2026

Our little star xxx

For:Olive Chaytor

6th July 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Victoria McNichol

10th November 2026

I hope this bear can bring you the tiniest bit of comfort in the most heartbreaking of times x

For:Theo Edward McNichol

19th October 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Gillian Follos

10th November 2026

Silently came into our world 🌎 missed every day

For:Phoebe rose perry

8th October 2014

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Emma Poole

10th November 2026

For:Florence Celine Hufton

19th October 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jennifer Collings

9th November 2026

Always in our heart beautiful boy xx

For:Lewis Munro Loughlin

12th March 2010

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lauren Barlow

8th November 2026

Sending you all our love x

For:Jamie Barlow

8th November 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Sian Marie

7th November 2026

In memory of my little angel babies ❤️❤️

For:Eden Harper ,Griffiths babies ❤️❤️

7th December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jodie O'Halloran

6th November 2026

For:O'Halloran Babies

6th July 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lauren Birkinshaw

6th November 2026

Twinkle twinkle little star, up in heaven is where you are. When the stars are twinkling bright, I’ll blow you a kiss and say goodnight.

For:Noah Birkinshaw

5th November 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Mckellar

5th November 2026

Our Little Angel

For:Isla Mckellar

27th October 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Catherine Quinn

5th November 2026

For:Rosa Faith Farrington

5th December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Samantha Treadwell

5th November 2026

In memory of our precious baby boy, loved and missed always 💙

For:Noah Peter Charles Evans

25th April 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Emma Deakin

4th November 2026

We love you to the moon and back! Forever our baby boy x

For:Baby Teddy Deakin

30th September 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Dariusz Kuczynski

4th November 2026

Please remember you are not alone We think of you and send a lot love and hugs

For:Gavin

9th November 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Alison Beresford

4th November 2026

Happy Birthday darling Phoebe your missed so much

For:Phoebe Violet

15th November 2023

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Sophie Beresford

4th November 2026

Happy birthday princess P. We will miss you for an eternity, sending floaty kisses Mummy, Esme and Louie xx

For:Phoebe Violet Mathison

15th November 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Fran Jennings

4th November 2026

Forever in my heart

For:Barry Jennings

20th August 1985

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Gary Andrews

4th November 2026

Donated with love by the charity Wynter’s Wish, in loving memory of baby Wynter Sophia Andrews. “When it’s dark, look for stars.”

For:Wynter Sophia Andrews

15th September 2019

£100.00 + £25.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jade Webb

3rd November 2026

For:Baby Webb

5th July 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Ms Dawn Street

3rd November 2026

I will love you always, our brave little lion xx

For:Spencer James Griffiths

19th August 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Rachel Simmons

3rd November 2026

We miss our baby girl Brooke so much, each and every single day. If love could’ve saved you you’d be here xx

For:Brooke Simmons

29th August 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Heidi Abbott

3rd November 2026

For:Lucie May

2nd February 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Clara Allen

3rd November 2026

Love you always baby boy.

For:Stanley David John Allen

20th February 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Kimberley Ford

3rd November 2026

For my sweet babies. Mummy and Daddy miss you loads. Hopefully you bring comfort to another family xxx

For:Riley Derrick Ford

29th April 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Abi Bell

3rd November 2026

For:Jacob Ryan Bell

11th May 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Stevie-leigh Parker

2nd November 2026

With this bear being the only thing I had to comfort when I left hospital,I Squeezed it so tight & thought of my baby girl it's now my foreva comfort & I hope you find comfort too & think of your precious baby x

For:Maya Margaret Jones

20th February 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Melissa Bartley

2nd November 2026

For:Hayden James Patrick Bartley

19th December 2011

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Louise Harmon

2nd November 2026

For:Baby Johnston

24th June 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Nichola Hanratty

2nd November 2026

For:Jonah Hanratty

4th November 2017

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr James Thompson

2nd November 2026

For:Lily May Thompson

5th June 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Rebecca Read

2nd November 2026

Sending love & light x x x x

For:Pebble Read

17th August 2023

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Ms Rachel Penny

2nd November 2026

Another beautiful way to honour you my Cora, my precious baby baby. I love and miss you always. Love from your mummy xxxx

For:Cora Marie Penny

31st May 2022

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Ms Gemma Sweepygem@aol.com

2nd November 2026

Forever loved and missed our beautiful boy 💙

For:Ronnie Jaxon Pudney

18th August 2021

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Kirsty Douglas

2nd November 2026

For:Landon James Mark Douglas

30th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Stephanie Scott

2nd November 2026

For:Alana-Mae Smith

20th August 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Krista Mercer

2nd November 2026

For:Baby Luke Anthony Mercer

11th July 2013

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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