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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 190 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £20 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Mrs Nikki Baker

31st March 2026

For:Henry James Baker

12th February 2026

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lisa Pearce

31st March 2026

Try and find the beautiful in every day

For:Aster Pearce

4th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Debra Monkman

31st March 2026

For:Madilyn Malin Green

31st March 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Danielle Skiggs-Russell

31st March 2026

May this bear bring you some comfort like it did me during this difficult time

For:Sully Albert Neil Creasey

4th March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Kendall

31st March 2026

We lost our baby Kendall at 12 weeks, the size of a Dragonfly. So our little one will always be remembered as ‘our Dragonfly’

For:Our Dragonfly, baby Kendall

23rd January 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Adlard

31st March 2026

We hope this bear can bring some comfort to you whenever you need it.

For:Pip Adlard

31st March 2015

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Alison Jepson

31st March 2026

Always in our thoughts, forever in our hearts.

For:Madison Veda Barclay

9th December 2012

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Alesha Clarke

31st March 2026

In memory of our beautiful boy Arthur who should be 4 and a half years old this Easter but died suddenly and unexpectedly at two months old on Boxing Day 2021. Loved forever in our hearts.

For:Arthur Durrant

14th October 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Melody Gill

30th March 2026

Lots of Love to you x

For:Joel Romaine

22nd January 2017

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sandy Sian Lotter

30th March 2026

For:Ruby Pyaara Kaur Lotter

8th March 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Cara Green

30th March 2026

For:Lacey Rae Angell-Green

14th February 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Laura Dean

30th March 2026

My grandmother and grandpa's beloved son, is remembered still. They went to him recently and he has been in our thoughts again since. Never forgotten, even by his family who were born many years after he left. The suffering my grandparents endured, by not giving up, enabled the family (including them eventually) to experience joy again. We are all grateful to them. Sending you lots of love and support

For:David Dicken (our David)

30th March 1963

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Allyson Metcalfe

29th March 2026

You are not alone please take some comfort they will always be with you xxx

For:Marcus and James Metcalfe twins

10th March 2026

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Elizabeth Ghazala

29th March 2026

We are thinking of you in this difficult time. Never lose Hope. Love from us all at Rita's Legacy Of Hope, Glasgow.

For:Rita Grace Ghazala

9th December 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Donna Kitchen

28th March 2026

Sending Love and Kindness xx

For:Lacey Kitchen

4th February 2012

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Marie Cowdall

28th March 2026

Gone from our arms, but not from our hearts. Keep shining down little ones.

For:Hope Grace Walsh and Froglet Walsh

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Leah Clee

28th March 2026

Happy heavenly Easter my little bunny xx

For:Georgie-Rose Clee

3rd January 2010

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sharon Jones

28th March 2026

In my thoughts x

For:Ashley

28th March 1997

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jackie Tait

28th March 2026

For:Ryan Andrew

16th May 2001

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Taylar-Anne Burton

28th March 2026

Our much wanted and longed for baby boy born sleeping at 24+3, due 14/07/2026. Fly high our angel boy. Mummy, Daddy, Elle & Theo love you so much xxx

For:Judd Stephen Daniels

27th March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Julia Benford

27th March 2026

For:Aoibheann Margaret Benford

21st March 2017

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Emma Julian

27th March 2026

For:In memory of Baby Archie.

23rd February 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Georgina Ford

26th March 2026

Too precious for this world, but will be loved and cherished forever. Our little Autumn baby always.

For:Little baby Pumpkin

3rd October 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Julie Allan

26th March 2026

In loving memory of our Grandson ‘The Admiral’ Love Grandma & Grandad xxx

For:‘The Admiral’ Allan

7th April 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jade Smith

25th March 2026

For:Emerie May Smith

20th March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Henry Smith

25th March 2026

For:Callie Marina Smith

20th March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Natalie Chatley

25th March 2026

For:Harry

22nd July 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Lauren Fry

25th March 2026

Love always Lauren & Rich

For:Baby Fry

26th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Gemma Woodhead

25th March 2026

With love, Gemma & David

For:Robin

25th March 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Julia Norio

25th March 2026

For:Sophia Maria Norio-Kearns

25th March 2015

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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