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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 190 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £20 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Miss Megan Jerromes

12th March 2026

For:Eliza Smith

31st August 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Luke Dixon

12th March 2026

There are no words we can say which will make what you're feeling any easier, but please know you're not alone. Your baby was and is loved and will never be forgotten.

For:Oisín Russell Dixon

9th January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jade Foster

12th March 2026

We hope you find as much comfort in your bear as we continue to do xx

For:Baby Calladine

2nd March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Jared Easter

12th March 2026

Donated for Mother’s Day to all special parents xxx

For:Baby Flump

16th February 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Chisato Kawamura

12th March 2026

Two tiny souls, forever loved. We hope these bears will bring comfort and support to someone, just as it has helped us.

For:Umi and Sora Kawamura

15th January 2026

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Gabrielle Devlin

10th March 2026

For:Iarlaith Devlin

11th February 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Nyah Blackburn

10th March 2026

Carried for a moment loved for a lifetime. I hope this bear brings you courage and comfort and I hope that my babies will guide you and provide you with love and protection as I know they do for me. Lots of love the Blackburn family x

For:Baby Blackburn

3rd March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Nathan Harvey

9th March 2026

In memory of Nolan-Clive. From everyone at Competitions North East, we’re honoured to make this donation to Aching Arms as part of our Make A Wish grant. With love and strength to Nolan-Clive’s family, and to every parent and family grieving a similar loss - you are not alone.

For:Nolan-Clive

30th March 2025

£300.00 + £75.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jan McGrath

8th March 2026

Donated in memory of Rowan James Holmes who was born on 17th March 2025 and very sadly passed away on 18th April 2025. Rowan was a much loved brother to his older sister, Clara and a beautiful son to his parents Ella and John. My thoughts are also with Rowan’s grandparents, Jane and Sean and his uncle, Joe. XXXX

For:Rowan James Holmes

17th March 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Dr Glynn Cooke

8th March 2026

In loving memory of our beautiful daughter Amelia Grace Cooke. Forever loved and missed. Mummy, Daddy, Phoebe and Arthur xxxxx

For:Amelia Grace Cooke

26th August 2022

£120.00 + £30.00 Gift Aid

Mr James Cunning

7th March 2026

For:Wren Rosa Cunning

3rd March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Ms Jenna Habib

6th March 2026

Donating this bear in honour of our beautiful son Maxwell who was born sleeping on 31.01.26. We hope this bear will bring a little comfort to someone that sadly needs it.

For:Maxwell Alexander Beaumont

31st January 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Sarah Ashley

6th March 2026

For:Ashley Thomas

5th March 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Laura Dickinson

5th March 2026

Forever in our hearts, our sweet girls Grace & Lily 💕

For:Grace Dickinson

5th March 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Katy Callan

4th March 2026

For:Otis Mark Liam Callan

20th April 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Ms Katharine Nobles

3rd March 2026

Sending you so much love and support

For:Baby Nobles

21st February 2026

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Manon O'Reilly

3rd March 2026

For:Alice Bellais O'Reilly

£200.00 + £50.00 Gift Aid

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