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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £18 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Miss Jade Glendinning

26th July 2024

For:Baby Griffiths

22nd July 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Grimley

25th July 2024

Payment processed through a Beacon-hosted donation form.

For:Arlo Grimley

3rd May 2023

£1.00 + £.25 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Grimley

25th July 2024

For:Arlo Grimley

3rd May 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Dr Beth Bell

25th July 2024

For:Eli John Bell

11th July 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Jennifer Haffner

25th July 2024

Sending all our love.xx

For:Leo Haffner

22nd December 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Kat Martin

25th July 2024

For:Teddy Bocock

19th June 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Anna Forsyth

25th July 2024

For:Millie Rose Creighton-Forsyth

20th July 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Emma Adams

24th July 2024

This bear is in memory of my beautiful son Roman. He went to sleep just before he turned 4 months old. Forever mourned and Forever loved. Always xxx

For:Roman Jepson-Adams

2nd January 2024

£54.00 + £13.50 Gift Aid

Miss Mollie Mackinnon

24th July 2024

Our stars in the Sky, forever and always x

For:Luca Mackinnon

3rd March 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Josie Casey

24th July 2024

For:Maia Josie Casey

27th June 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Blaine Emmett

24th July 2024

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For:Milo O’Toole

25th July 2022

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Erin Bailey

24th July 2024

Payment processed through a Beacon-hosted donation form.

For:Marius & Ariya

24th July 2017

£1.00 + £.25 Gift Aid

Mrs Erin Bailey

24th July 2024

For:Marius & Ariya

24th July 2017

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Mariam Bendyshe-Brown

24th July 2024

Forever in my heart xxx

For:Oliver Bendyshe-Brown

24th July 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Sioned Twose

22nd July 2024

Happy heavenly birthday to our precious son Hefin Hedd. In our hearts and thoughts always xXx

For:Hefin Hedd Twose

22nd July 2018

£54.00 + £13.50 Gift Aid

Miss Claire Gardner

22nd July 2024

For:Noah Gardner

9th August 2023

£54.00 + £13.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Rebecca Patel

21st July 2024

Our love will always find you!

For:Ernie Patel

21st July 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Petrica-Gabriel Stan

20th July 2024

In loving memory to our angel boy!

For:Lukas-Vlad Stan

18th July 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Emma Williamson

19th July 2024

In loving memory of our beautiful son Teddy Jason Williamson deeply missed beyond words forever perfect 7 weeks old too beautiful for earth. May our bear bring comfort to another in there time of greif an unimaginable pain. But the love and joy Teddy brought in our lives for just short while we will cherish forever. Xo Northern Ireland

For:Teddy Jason Williamson xox

7th January 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Jessica Roberts

19th July 2024

Receiving a bear has made our grieving a lot easier and we hope we give the same feeling to other families

For:Baby Griffiths

18th July 2024

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sharon Phillips

19th July 2024

Payment processed through a Beacon-hosted donation form.

For:Anaïa Sapphire McDowall-Phillips

4th June 2024

£1.00 + £.25 Gift Aid

Mrs Sharon Phillips

19th July 2024

For my Dear Son Marcus x and Partner Natasha x Jessica and Ollie xx Our thoughts and prayers for our beautiful Granddaughter Anaïa 💖🙏 and to you all for your very sad loss, but Anaïa 💖 will be in your hearts forever more 🙏 Sharon and Ralph Phillips xx

For:Anaïa Sapphire McDowall-Phillips

4th June 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Lian Jones

17th July 2024

Forever in our hearts xx

For:Baby Jones-Martin

10th July 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Sean O'Brien

17th July 2024

On the 26/08/2023 our son Seán Jude O'Brien was born in the Royal Jubilee Maternity Hospital in Belfast. He sadly passed away 3hrs and 56 minutes later, having met his two big sisters and surrounded by his family and friends. We make this donation so that other bereaved families may receive a bear and know that they are not alone.

For:Seán Jude O'Brien

26th August 2023

£432.00 + £108.00 Gift Aid

Mr Andrew Green

17th July 2024

In memory of our little boys, from them to you.

For:Max and River

15th July 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Lindsay Carpenter-Oliver

16th July 2024

Happy 9th Birthday beautiful boy x x

For:Henry Oliver

16th July 2015

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

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