Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.
Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.
Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.
We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.
*Please donate £18 per bear.
*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.
*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.
*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.
*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.
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After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.
Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.
A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears
We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.
We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.
If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.
Recent Donations
Mrs Abi Bell
24th November 2025
For:Jacob Ryan Bell
11th May 2024
£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid
Mr Christopher Tucker
23rd November 2025
In loving memory of our dearest daughter Isabella. Our grief for you may come and go, but our love for you will always show X
For:Isabella
8th November 2025
Mr Shariq Rehman
@@ In loving memory of our baby girl, Noor. Her name means “light” in Arabic. Though we couldn’t feel her alive in our arms upon delivery, she filled our hearts with light and life. We hope this comfort bear brings a little warmth to your aching arms, just as our Noor continues to shine and brings peace. May this gift remind you that you are not alone in your grief. In darkness, even a tiny light can make a difference. With compassion from one grieving family to another.
For:Noor Shariq
20th November 2025
£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid
Mrs Kayleigh Askins
Remember, every tear we shed is just the love for them spilling out. Xxx
For:Max Noah Askins
23rd November 2024
Miss Rachel Osborne
In memory of our wee duck Rí We love you to the moon and back
For:Rí Grace Thompson
Miss Melia Havey
For:Baby Cooper
20th December 2024
Mrs Kelly Harman
Our little peanut thinking of you always 💗
For:Amelia Harman
11th April 2015
Our little man always in our hearts 💙
For:Charlie Harman
21st January 2013
Mrs Victoria Robinson
21st November 2025
Forever in our hearts baby girl xxxx
For:ELSIE FLEUR ROBINSON
30th April 2020
Dr Maria Stoikou
For:Leo Hunt
6th August 2021
£100.00 + £25.00 Gift Aid
Mrs Sarah Brookes
For:Otto and Otis Ancliffe
6th October 2023
Mrs Lucy Ferry-Collins
Sending so much love and strength xxx
For:Sprinkle
21st November 2020
Mrs Theresa Kirk
Xx
For:Any
1st January 2025
Miss Katie Lawton
We didn’t get to the point of naming our beautiful angel. We were just calling them bean for the time we had with them. There is always a light at the end of this darkness and we’re all just trying to navigate our way through.
For:Baby Lawton-Curran
30th April 2026
Mrs Jennifer Hill
For:Louisa-May Hill
9th December 2023
Miss Kat Martin
For:Teddy Bocock
19th June 2024
Mrs Sandra Bailey
For:Peter Hammersley
1st September 2019
Mrs Emma McCarroll
For:Catriona Rose McCarroll
21st November 2009
Mr Dan Langley
For:Baby Langley
20th November 2019
Mrs Barbara Lewis
Love you more Nana & Grandad
For:Sonny Lewis-Melton
2nd November 2025
Miss Danielle Lewis
We hope you love this bear As much as we love and miss our Sonny xxx
Miss Emma Davies
Happy 3rd birthday to my baby in heaven, may your bear bring comfort to the families of other angels like you 🩵
For:Alfie Peter Roland Wright
24th November 2022
Mrs Lauren Colclough
19th November 2025
For:Hugo Colclough
Mr Alex Templeman
For:Luca Templeman
18th November 2025
Mrs Natalie McGregor
For:Arran James McGregor
22nd June 2020
Miss Melanie Cashman
For:Leo Philip Cashman
18th November 2022
Mrs Alex Leach
Always in my heart xxx
For:Harry Steven Beveridge
16th August 2021
Mrs Cody Townend
In loving memory of our baby tigger.
For:Macie-Mae Townend
15th January 2025
Mrs Rose Bell
Always in our hearts
For:Eli John Bell
11th July 2024
Mrs Gail Cartwright
For:Owen Smith
15th November 2019
Miss Jantine van Loon
For:Robin Ross
15th July 2024
Mr Michael Burgess
To our little princess. A moment in our arms, forever in our hearts. Love Mummy & Daddy
For:Madelyn Louisa Burgess
19th July 2025
Miss Heather White
For:Grayson Cole Evans
4th January 2025
Mrs Alexandria Redfearn
You are my sunshine, forever loved. Mum x
For:Samantha Jayne Redfearn
11th July 2020
Miss Beth Champion
17th November 2025
For:Felix Thomas Pearce
4th September 2023
Miss Michelle Locke
For:Eli Gabriel Allen
10th September 2020
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