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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £20 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Miss Sarah Davies

27th December 2025

In loving memory of my little Oscar Martin. Forever in our hearts

For:Oscar Martin

18th October 2016

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Holly Yates-Mahone

26th December 2025

For:Lennie Yates-Mahone

30th December 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Tiffany Brownlow

26th December 2025

For:Gabriel

24th June 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Kaylie Dadd

26th December 2025

For:Evelyn Lily Dadd

6th March 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jade Husband

26th December 2025

For:Arlo Pearce

10th November 2023

£50.00 + £12.50 Gift Aid

Mr Mudenda Sikabbubba

26th December 2025

For:Gabriel Sikabbubba

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Mudenda Sikabbubba

26th December 2025

For:Grace Sikabbubba

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Luke Street

25th December 2025

For:Lilith Street

26th January 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Chelsea Wilson

25th December 2025

For:Oscar Robert Wilson

12th November 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Holly Barresi

25th December 2025

Merry Christmas Angel Love mummy and daddy x x x

For:Evelyn Barresi

8th March 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Manon O'Reilly

25th December 2025

For:Alice Bellais O'Reilly

£100.00 + £25.00 Gift Aid

Mr Peter Farley

25th December 2025

For:Lyla

22nd May 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Lorrissa Cotterill

24th December 2025

For:tommy macken

17th June 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Marie Dodman

24th December 2025

For:Forest Rowley

19th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Ann Martin

24th December 2025

For:Robin Lizzie Haffenden

27th October 2022

£60.00 + £15.00 Gift Aid

Miss Victoria Maguire

24th December 2025

For:Dylan Andrew Thomas James

24th January 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Sabrina Menzies

24th December 2025

Merry Christmas Blake. I hope it's festive up there. Thinking of your always, Love Auntie Brina, Uncle Chris & Cousin Acer x

For:Blake Seb Chartell

7th September 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Samantha & Phillip Tryner

24th December 2025

Wherever you are, together we’ll be…

For:Helena Rose Tryner

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Tara Pathirana

24th December 2025

To my beautiful niece and nephew, in our hearts forever x

For:Indie Iyla and Arlo Williams

£200.00 + £50.00 Gift Aid

Miss Laura Bailey

24th December 2025

In memory of our beautiful girl. Merry Christmas, lots of love Mummy & Daddy. Don't just fly, soar xxx

For:Elin-Rose Wendy Belcher

3rd December 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jemma Parkinson-King

24th December 2025

In loving memory of our beautiful boys at Christmas time x

For:Joseph James & Thomas Andrew

11th January 2018

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Ms Clare Roberts

24th December 2025

For Florence. Missing you at Christmas from Mum, Dad and little sister Madeline xxx

For:Florence Audrey Mills Roberts

24th August 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Anna Brown

24th December 2025

We love you Charlie, love Mummy & Daddy xxx

For:Charlie Lucas McCormick

14th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Lorraine Bannan

24th December 2025

In memory of my nephew Findlay, loved always xx

For:Findlay Francis McMillan

20th July 2013

£60.00 + £15.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Charlotte Mellerick

24th December 2025

For:Tommy Ellis

9th July 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Laura Lambourne

24th December 2025

For:Harriette Gurug

5th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Michael Lawrence

24th December 2025

You’re the gift that keeps on giving precious boy. Keep shinning bright 🌟

For:Logan Lawrence

15th September 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Elaine Hibble

24th December 2025

For:Forest Rowley

19th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Kelly Vale

24th December 2025

With faith comes hope

For:Faya Rose

15th March 2014

£10.00 + £2.50 Gift Aid

Mr Steve Perry

24th December 2025

For:Ronnie Jaxson Pudney

18th August 2021

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Cassie Davies

24th December 2025

For:Tommy Davies

24th December 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Tony Farmer

24th December 2025

Forrest Jay, the dream we softly knew, a star now cradled by the moon. We carry you in all we do— a love that stays our whole life through Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

For:Forrest Rowley

19th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sarah Webb

23rd December 2025

For our beautiful Freya we love you very much, our hearts are broken you are not here with us. Forever our precious girl. Nana & Gang Gang xx

For:Freya Alice Brenda Webb

21st December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jenny Ocego

23rd December 2025

For:Elsie-rose Ocego

1st February 2022

£40.00 + £10.00 Gift Aid

Miss Julie Randle

23rd December 2025

For:Forrest Rowley

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jade Craig

23rd December 2025

For:Forrest Rowley

19th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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