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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £20 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Miss Vicky Pearson

19th December 2025

In loving memory of our princess lacey , we hope this bear brings another family missing their angel this Christmas alot of comfort from our family to yours with lots of love xxx

For:Lacey bedford

9th March 2009

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Naomi Taylor

19th December 2025

For:Frank Taylor

16th June 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Hayley Clark

19th December 2025

For:Elliette Clark

13th June 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Hannah Shopland

19th December 2025

For:Sophia Long

26th September 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Julie Kane

18th December 2025

Forever loved and missed

For:Harrie Marcus Kane

18th December 2019

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Linda Gardner

18th December 2025

For:Noel Gardner

9th August 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Becky Bassan

18th December 2025

For:Leo Singh Bassan

18th December 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Joleen Lonsdale

18th December 2025

Happy heavenly birthday

For:Harrie Kane

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Barry Perkins

18th December 2025

Time heals

For:Charlie Perkins

31st December 1990

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jenna Johnson

18th December 2025

Please be gentle with yourself. There's no timeline for grief, you are not alone. With love always xx

For:Mila Rae

11th June 2022

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Tazmin Pinfold

17th December 2025

🤍

For:Baby Moore

6th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Rebecca Pykerman

17th December 2025

For:Oliver Pykerman

4th December 2008

£60.00 + £15.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Vicki Gardner

17th December 2025

Always Loved Always Missed

For:Fearne Evelyn

1st March 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Vikki Stockdale

17th December 2025

Happy Christmas to our brightest star - Albie Love Nana & Grandad xxx

For:Albie James Kitson

5th October 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Hollie-Mae Clarkson

17th December 2025

For:Albie

5th October 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sasha Bunting

17th December 2025

Love always xx

For:Adley Jak Costello

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Justin Cole

17th December 2025

Always loved

For:Baby Moore

6th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mr Daniel Hodgson

16th December 2025

Our beautiful boy will always be missed. Love Mummy, Daddy, Heidi and Louis

For:Noah Harry Hodgson

12th February 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Elizabeth Atkins-O’Neill

16th December 2025

For:Jude Atkins-O’Neill

14th September 2012

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Chelsea Simmons

16th December 2025

They will never be forgotten, they will always live on in our hearts x

For:Jessie Simmons

16th December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Annaliese Cassidy

16th December 2025

In loving memory of my precious little baby girl. Always on my mind beautiful angel xxx

For:Mariella Grace Cassidy

18th October 2024

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Jenny Bevan

16th December 2025

Hold me, treasure me

For:KIERAN CARL JAMES

5th February 1996

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Roshin Baranian

16th December 2025

Our precious daughter Orlaith Always on our minds and in our hearts 🤍

For:Orlaith Rose Chester-Baranian

10th November 2023

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Amy Dowey

16th December 2025

For:Luke Alberry

30th December 2020

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Sue Gent

16th December 2025

Remembered with so much love xx

For:Amie Rose Rennison

20th October 2009

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Whitney Lenton

16th December 2025

For:Theodore Angelo Lenton

10th July 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Ilana Manning

16th December 2025

For our beautiful Joel, thinking of you at Christmas and always. We miss and love you so very much xxx

For:Joel William Michael Manning

22nd September 2018

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Charlotte Tatman

16th December 2025

Forever in our hearts

For:Sprout Murrell

2nd December 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Anne Wetherall

16th December 2025

For:Dotty Twin of Peter

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Denise Jones

15th December 2025

In loving memory of our Granddaughter

For:Sophie Phillips

7th August 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Natalie Sullivan

15th December 2025

Forever missed and always loved. Merry Christmas little man. Xx

For:Aaron Lewis Sullivan

12th August 2016

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Rebecca Morrow

15th December 2025

Our little angel x

For:Baby Trickett

30th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Jenna Cuerden

15th December 2025

For:Baby Cairns

6th June 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Coby Shears

15th December 2025

Hope this bear brings comfort to the family at this difficult time.

For:Luca Dunn

12th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Miss Kirsty Shears

15th December 2025

Hope this bear brings comfort to the family at this difficult time.

For:Luca Dunn

12th November 2025

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Nicola Pearce

15th December 2025

Our golden star in the sky

For:Amber Seren Marie Pearce

1st October 2021

£20.00 + £5.00 Gift Aid

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