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Many parents who have experienced the loss of their baby during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, find comfort in receiving the gift of an Aching Arms bear.

Each beautiful bear wears a handwritten label with the name of the baby in whose memory the bear was dedicated. The label also connects families to sources of information, support and understanding.

Many families go on to dedicate an Aching Arms bear in honour of their baby. The bear you donate will be gifted to another bereaved family which extends the arm of friendship and helps other bereaved parents to know they are not alone.

We are proud to provide Aching Arms comfort teddy bears to over 170 UK-wide NHS hospitals, hospices, funeral directors, support groups, and to families who contact us directly.

To donate a bear in memory

*Please donate £18 per bear.

*When prompted, please share the name of the baby in whose memory you are dedicating the bear.

*The baby's date of birth/anniversary/due date/special dates are optional.

*Please remember to tick the GIFT AID box, it boosts your donation by 25% at no extra cost to you and makes a big difference to our charity.

*If you are donating a bear in memory of someone else's baby, please ensure you have the parents' permission and have confirmed how they would like their baby's name to be written on the bear's label.

 

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Where is your bear?

After you have donated, we will add your baby's name to our Bear Dedication List and, when needed, a label will be lovingly handwritten and added to an Aching Arms bear by one of our wonderful volunteers. In hospital, or at home via our postal bear service, your baby's bear will be gifted to another family to help bring them some comfort and let them know they are not alone.

Unfortunately, we are unable to share the location of each individual bear after it has been gifted but please feel assured that every bear will be bringing comfort to another family.

A small number of bear recipients choose to thank Aching Arms and the family who have gifted them a bear via Aching Arms’ dedicated, private facebook group called 'Aching Arms Bears' where bear pictures and messages can be posted. You are welcome to join our group here: Aching Arms Bears

Keepsake eCard

We are able to offer a beautiful, personalised, keepsake eCard showing that you have dedicated an Aching Arms bear in your baby's name. For more details, please visit our Keepsake eCard page after you have donated your bears in memory.

How you make a difference

We rely on voluntary donations and because of your kindness and generosity we can reach the many families who sadly need us. Thank you for choosing to support Aching Arms and for helping us to help families just like yours.

We are here to help

If you have a question or need help making your donation, please get in touch with us at info@achingarms.co.uk or call on 07826 067801.

Recent Donations

Mr Daniel Thompson

14th January 2025

This is a pain no parent should have to bare, but remain strong and live for them and do them proud xxx

For:In special memory of our baby, Finley James Thompson who gave us such love and joy for 3 weeks. To the receiving parents be strong and know that your child loves you with all their heart.

16th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Emma Campbell

14th January 2025

In memory of our own little Angel. Our son Arlo Campbell born sleeping. Loved and missed every day

For:Arlo Elijah Campbell

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr James Needham

13th January 2025

For:Charlotte Emily

3rd April 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Ms Michelle McDonald

13th January 2025

In memory of my dear friend Dawn's grandson, Spencer, who sadly left this world far too soon. Thinking of his mummy and daddy, who I know will carry him in their hearts and thoughts for the rest of their lives.

For:Spencer James Griffiths

26th August 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Joyce Wan

13th January 2025

In memory of our precious little one, you are so very loved and missed.

For:Baby Wan

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Chloe Hitt

12th January 2025

For:Isabella Lily Hitt

11th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Hannah Davies

12th January 2025

For:Santi Hopkins

31st December 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Amy Todd

11th January 2025

On the eve of your Sixth birthday Molly Eve, we donate these bears in your memory. Mummy, Daddy and your baby brother Sullivan will love you each and everyday we are here until we are all together again. Forever out littlest blackbird 16.01.19 xx

For:Molly Eve O'Toole

16th January 2019

£54.00 + £13.50 Gift Aid

Mr Craig Smith

10th January 2025

Our precious Eva, on your third birthday, we love you and miss you every moment of every day. Love Mummy, Daddy, Will and Baxter xxxx

For:Eva Rose Mack-Smith

15th January 2022

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Miss Ellie Heaton

10th January 2025

For:Angel Rose Heaton

7th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Fintan Haveron

9th January 2025

For:Baby Haveron

17th June 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Elizabeth Heath

9th January 2025

For:Baby Renee Rees

19th July 2021

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Claire Douglas

9th January 2025

For:Meabh McGreevy

8th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Josie Casey

9th January 2025

For:Maia Josie Casey

27th June 2024

£36.00 + £9.00 Gift Aid

Mrs Latika Bankar

8th January 2025

You are so beautiful and perfect Viha x Our heart will always carry you till we meet again. Rest in peace. Mummy daddy love you x

For:Viha A

7th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Sue Small

8th January 2025

This one is in memory of my 1st Angel Vicky her birthday/angelversary is 23 4 1981

For:Smalls 12 Angel's

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Kelly Tyrer

8th January 2025

Our beautiful grandson. Loved and missed so very much. Lots of love Nanny and Grumps xxx

For:Ralphie Robson

5th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Janet Winter

8th January 2025

For:Ralphie Robson's Family

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Melanie Hinchcliffe

8th January 2025

With all the love in the world

For:Ralphie Robson

5th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Sabrina Menzies

7th January 2025

We make this donation as a Christmas gift in memory of our dearest nephew Blake,a twin born sleeping. Never forgotten, forever loved. X

For:Blake

7th September 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Roxanne Brown

6th January 2025

We may never have got to hold you in our arms, but you will never leave our hearts. You will always be loved and cherished beyond words. I hope we get to see you in our dreams and shining bright in the sky, our beautiful angel baby

For:Baby Scott-Brown

24th December 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Courtney Barton

6th January 2025

For:Hope Gudgeon

5th January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Cally Bennett

6th January 2025

Mummy’s precious boy.

For:Lennox-Lucas

6th January 2023

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Michael Allan

5th January 2025

Ethan Michael Allan - mum and dad love you so much

For:Ethan Michael Allan

12th April 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Natalie Lane

5th January 2025

A gift from our baby to yours.

For:Macklan Peter Hearn

2nd January 2025

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Leah Palmer

4th January 2025

In honour of her 5th Birthday

For:Rudy Dolden

6th January 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Hannah Hirst

3rd January 2025

To my gorgeous nephew on your birthday. With my love, always, Auntie Hann Hann xxxxx

For:Albie Angel Van-Heusde

4th January 2021

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Nicola Hunday

3rd January 2025

Loved forever

For:Poppy Grace Hunday

26th December 2023

£90.00 + £22.50 Gift Aid

Miss Leah Clee

3rd January 2025

Happy 15th Heavenly birthday my baby girl. Love and miss you so much xx

For:Georgie-Rose Clee

3rd January 2010

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Eilidh Walter

2nd January 2025

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For:Daisy and Lily Munro

27th November 2024

£1.00 + £.25 Gift Aid

Miss Eilidh Walter

2nd January 2025

Our Precious Little Angel Girls. Held tightly in our hearts forever and always x

For:Daisy and Lily Munro

27th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Rebecca Hagger

2nd January 2025

Sending love and strength to you and your family during this tough time. You are not alone x

For:Charlie Christopher Hagger

9th January 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Miss Lauren Johns

2nd January 2025

Robyn our little one! You will always be loved and missed xx

For:Robyn Graham

25th March 2020

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Abi Wishart

1st January 2025

Forever loved and missed endlessly, our beautiful baby boy xx

For:Gabriel Wishart

31st December 2022

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mr Will McLarnon

31st December 2024

For:Esme Marie McLarnon

13th October 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

Mrs Faye and Jake McDermott

31st December 2024

The brightest star in the sky x

For:Baby McDermott

17th November 2024

£18.00 + £4.50 Gift Aid

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