The Be Together events are funded by the wonderful grant we have received from Global's Make Some Noise charity. The Aching Arms Be Together events are an opportunity for our community to come together. Held throughout the UK, they provide an opportunity to spend time doing activities with others who have some understanding of what you have experienced. Our past events include, football matches for Dads, picnics, camp fire and tree planting events and a sibling fun farm day. When attending an event, there is no expectation that you will discuss your story, but if you choose to, you can share it with those around you. We want you to know you are not alone, and our events can be a way of creating new memories in honour of a baby special to you. We would love to see you at one of our upcoming events, you can find out more by clicking on the events coming up box below and following us on social media.
You have enquires, you are welcome to contact Claire, our Be Together Project Lead at betogether@achingarms.co.uk.
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Join our staff and take part in Miles in Memory at the Park Run, Brentwood, Essex.
Date: Saturday 11th October 2025
Time: 8:30 am
Location: Weald Country Park, South Weald, Brentwood, CM14 5QS.
Sign up to Miles in Memory here for your free T-shirt.
Come and join us for this wonderful opportunity to get together as families who have been affected by the loss of a baby.
We will be decorating lanterns for Baby Loss Awareness Week. This will be a drop-in session between 2pm and 4pm.
(We are asking for a suggested donation of £2 payable on the day.)
Then please come back and join us at the bookshop at 5pm for a short lantern walk.
Date: Saturday 11th October 2025 Time: Lantern making 2pm to 4pm The Lantern walk/parade will take place at 5pm.
Location: Chicken and Frog Bookshop, 30 Crown Street, Brentwood, Essex, CM14 4BA.
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There is no need to sign up, just pop in on the day, and we will look forward to seeing you there.
Our Be Together coffee mornings are for bereaved families who have experienced the heartbreak of losing a baby, during pregnancy, at birth or soon after.
Come along for support and understanding in a safe and compassionate environment at our coffee mornings.
Whether you're seeking advice, friendship, or simply a listening ear, you'll find it here among fellow parents who have walked a path similar to your own. Together, we can support each other through this journey of grief.
There is no need to sign up, just come along between 11am and 12:30pm to our Aching Arms Hub.
If you have any questions about attending, please contact Sharon, who is hosting the event at shop@achingarms.co.uk
Date: Saturday 18th October 2025.
Time: 11am - 12:30pn
Location: 49 Summer Hill, Halesowen, B63 3BU.
Directions.
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Future events: 8th November, 13th December. (Saturdays)
Christmas is coming and once again we have organised a Be Together Event in collaboration with Rachel from Rustic and Wild Florist.
We are so pleased to welcome Rachel, from Rustic and Wild, back following the success of last years wreath making event. It will be a lovely morning where you can enjoy making a Christmas wreath whilst meeting and chatting other bereaved parents/family members. Festive refreshments will be provided. There are 10 spaces available. We look forward to seeing you there. You will be able to dedicate a bear for free in memory of a baby/babies special to you. Unfortunately, there is limited parking out side the hub and surrounding street. The nearest car park is at the Cornbow Multi storey car park, which is only a short walk away (less than 5 mins!) which is free for 2 hours. Event Date: Saturday 15th November
Time: 10:00 am - 12:00 pm. Location: 49 Summer Hill, Halesowen. B63 3BU
Directions
Sign up and find out more here. Contact: 07585769615 or betogether@achingarms.co.uk
You're Invited: Online Christmas Card Crafting Workshop Join us for a heartfelt hour of creativity and remembrance as we come together to design personalised Christmas cards in Canva — a space to honour your precious babies and share love during a season that can feel especially tender.
What to Expect: - A guided 1-hour online workshop led by Claire and Serena - A short presentation and guidance to use the FREE version of Canva (no experience needed) - A beautiful selection of templates to choose from — perfect for printing or sending as e-cards - Each card includes the Aching Arms logo and a QR code for donations, if you wish to include it - Small, supportive groups (max 10 participants per session) Dates & Times: Thursday 20th November | 8:00 – 9:00 pm Friday 21st November | 10:15 – 11:15 am Location: Online via Canva (details and access instructions will be sent in your confirmation email)
This gentle, creative space is designed to help you honour your baby’s memory and connect with others who understand. Whether you’re crafting for yourself or to share with loved ones, we hope this hour brings a little light and comfort.
Sign up here
For more information or questions, please don’t hesitate to reach out via email betogether@achingarms.co.uk
Join us for a peaceful and creative morning of Christmas-themed flower arranging, led by talented florist Gail Carpenter from Isabel's Flowers. This special event is a chance to connect with other bereaved parents and family members in a gentle, supportive space. - Dedicate a bear in memory of a baby special to you – free of charge - All flowers and materials provided - Free refreshments available throughout the afternoon - Adults only – feel free to bring a partner, friend, or family member - £5 refundable deposit required to secure your place
We look forward to welcoming you to a meaningful and uplifting experience. Date: Saturday, 13th December Time: 09:30 am – 11:30 am Location: Human Kind Cafe, 111 High St, Billericay, Essex, CM12 9AJ
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Local Parking: Waitrose (2 hours free for customers) or Billericay High Street Car Park to the rear of Iceland (£1.50 for 2 hours). Both car parks are within a couple of minutes’ walk.
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07464 508994 support@achingarms.co.uk
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